We Adopted a 4-Year-Old Girl — Just a Month Later, My Wife Demanded, ‘We Should Give Her Back’

We Adopted a 4-Year-Old Girl — Just a Month Later, My Wife Demanded, ‘We Should Give Her Back’

“Give Her Back?”

For years, Claire and I had longed for a child. We tried everything—fertility treatments, specialists, even considering surrogacy. Nothing worked. Adoption felt like our second chance, our destiny.

Then came Sophie.

She was **perfect**—bright-eyed, full of laughter, and desperate for love. The moment she called me “Daddy,” my heart melted. I knew she was meant to be ours.

But now, just **one month** after we brought her home, Claire stood in front of me, pale and tense.

*”We need to give her back.”*

I blinked, sure I had misheard. “What?”

Claire wrapped her arms around herself. “I… I made a mistake,” she whispered.

Sophie’s words from moments ago echoed in my head. *”I don’t wanna go away again. I wanna stay with you and Mommy.”*

“You’re joking,” I said, my voice unsteady. “She’s our daughter, Claire.”

Claire swallowed hard. “I thought I could do this, but I **don’t feel anything for her**.”

My breath hitched.

“I keep waiting for that motherly instinct, but it’s not there,” she continued. “I feel like a stranger living with someone else’s kid.”

 

Then came Sophie.

She was **perfect**—bright-eyed, full of laughter, and desperate for love. The moment she called me “Daddy,” my heart melted. I knew she was meant to be ours.

But now, just **one month** after we brought her home, Claire stood in front of me, pale and tense.

*”We need to give her back.”*

I blinked, sure I had misheard. “What?”

Claire wrapped her arms around herself. “I… I made a mistake,” she whispered.

 

Sophie’s words from moments ago echoed in my head. *”I don’t wanna go away again. I wanna stay with you and Mommy.”*

“You’re joking,” I said, my voice unsteady. “She’s our daughter, Claire.”

Claire swallowed hard. “I thought I could do this, but I **don’t feel anything for her**.”

My breath hitched.

“I keep waiting for that motherly instinct, but it’s not there,” she continued. “I feel like a stranger living with someone else’s kid.”
“Claire,” I said slowly, anger bubbling beneath my shock, “she’s **not** someone else’s kid. She’s ours. You wanted this.”

She shook her head. “No. **You** wanted this.”

The words hit like a slap.

I stumbled back, gripping the wall for support. Sophie wasn’t just some child we were *testing out*—she was a little girl who had **already lost too much**.

I thought Claire and I had the same dream. But now?

I looked toward Sophie’s room, where I knew she was probably curled up, listening.

And I made my choice.