eartbroken, a young woman arrived at her grandmother’s house in tears, devastated by her husband’s betrayal. She collapsed into a chair, overwhelmed by life’s relentless hardships, unsure how to move forward. Her grandmother said nothing—just quietly set three pots of water to boil.
Into the boiling water, she placed a carrot, an egg, and coffee beans. After a while, she placed them in bowls and asked her granddaughter to observe: the carrot had turned soft, the egg hardened inside, and the coffee had transformed the water into something rich and fragrant.
Her grandmother explained: each item faced the same adversity—boiling water—but reacted differently. The carrot grew weak, the egg turned hard, but the coffee changed its surroundings instead of letting the water change it. “When life gets hard,” she asked gently, “will you be the carrot, the egg, or the coffee bean?”
In that quiet moment, the young woman understood. Life’s pain didn’t have to define her—it could refine her. Surrounded by love and wisdom, she realized she had a choice: to break, to harden, or to become something better. And maybe, she already was becoming the brew.
